one moment at a time – Puzzle Pieces of my Heart

Lyra the Toy Poodle

Where do I start? I’m not a huge animal, person. Jake has been very open and honest about wanting a dog for a couple of years now. I always had a dog growing up, but I was a teenager, I had no interest in walking them, they barked all the time and they got underContinue reading “Lyra the Toy Poodle”

Is it ok to cry?

Everyone tells you that it is ok to cry, but is it? Early advice following a bereavement of any kind is that it is ok to cry. People worry that you’re going to hold it all in and deny your emotions time but the truth is that your emotions take time themselves. In the daysContinue reading “Is it ok to cry?”

Unanswered questions and prayer.

My head has been a whirlwind of thoughts and emotions since Tobias was poorly. During pregnancy, I always had a voice in my mind that told me ‘it will be ok’. At 20 weeks we discovered that Tobias was not developing the way that he should be. Coming out from the appointment I didn’t knowContinue reading “Unanswered questions and prayer.”

‘Baking is good for your soul’

I loved baking my cinnamon loaf earlier in the week. This week brought another perfect opportunity to bake. My nieces are on half term and looking for things to do to keep busy everyday, why not bake?? They came to my house with packed lunches in tow, ready for a full day of baking. TheContinue reading “‘Baking is good for your soul’”

One Moment at a Time.

The book that made me feel ‘normal’- Ask Me His Name- Elle Wright Over the past few days I have made a conscious effort to be proactive in seeking support and guidance for life after baby loss. Living life after the loss of Tobias at times seems impossible. The meaning of my life has beenContinue reading “One Moment at a Time.”